Friday, August 10, 2007

Is setting goals really worthy..

In span of 23 yrs of my life which also includes some 12-13 yrs of childhood ignorance, I have realised that setting hard goals and then pre defining the process to achieve them doesn't prove worthy. I am not saying this because it is really hard to follow the dicipline required to follow the self definied process, or goals are impossible to achieve because they always behaves like irrational numbers. I feel the most important thing in the life is the "fun" in facing the undesigned challenges not in "fear" of distracting from pre-defined process. Even while I dance, I feel more thrilled when I could match and change my steps as smoothly and quickly as possible according to the unpredicatble movements taken by my partner then trying to do something I have seen Hrithik doing on his number.Reader's view might be different but I have felt that goals are either enjoyed by you alone or by the others you were already standing there just an inch away from the finishing line to snatch the baton from your hands. But still I would say that is not the reason for me to write this article. Because if this happens to you and more importantly if it bothers you, then it clearly tells that you actually ran for the credit, not for the process that you defined. Hoping for the credit is very genuine feeling. When Gods have defined there credits sections for every thing happening on earth then we are the humans. Then its better to eradicate possiblity of any such situations. Don't define any finishing line, don't expect race to 100 meters non hurdles, don't keep any prejudice about who will follow you as foe and who will stand by as friend, don't define the flow chart and don't define mechanics to handle emotions..
Note: But always follow the mechincs if its already establihed. ( I mean to say don't try to follow mithun ways)

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